Going to school in another country can be intimidating. You’re dealing with a new place with new cultural norms and expectations, both socially and academically. But there are myths that often make these places seem scarier than they truly are.
The Daniels Newsroom put these myths to the test to demystify the experience of attending the University of Denver. We consulted with faculty, staff and current international students to find out what they were most worried about before attending the Daniels College of Business. Then, we shared their actual experiences in the Mile High City.
In most cases, the myth was far more frightening than the reality.
Myth: People won’t think I’m smart if I go to my professor or TA’s office hours.
Reality: Office hours are there to support your learning, and there are no “stupid” questions. In the American university system, office hours are a crucial element of subject mastery and provide an ideal opportunity to connect with an expert. Do note that your professors and TAs won’t do your homework for you but will support you in your understanding of the subject. It’s also a great opportunity to build a closer relationship with faculty who will guide you through your time on campus and, in some cases, even after you graduate.
Myth: I shouldn’t participate in class discussions or ask questions, as it undermines my professor.
Reality: Classroom participation is often a crucial part of your grade, and you’re encouraged to ask questions and contribute to group discussions. This shows your attentiveness to the lesson and how much you care about learning. Your teachers genuinely want you to understand the material, so they want to clarify your questions. Your perspective as an international student adds a unique depth to classroom discussions and your classmates can learn a lot by hearing your perspective
Myth: I will accidentally offend people if I make mistakes while learning American culture.
Reality: There is no guidebook for learning the nuances of a new culture and it’s impossible to learn all the norms before you arrive in a new place. American students experience the same challenges when they go abroad, so they know the feeling. If you think you may have offended someone, apologize and consider why your action was offensive. And if you need help, don’t be afraid to ask an advisor or professor.
Myth: I have to change my accent for my colleagues to understand what I am saying.
Reality: Your command of the language has next to nothing to do with your accent! Speak confidently and authentically and your ability will shine through.
Daniels Beyond Borders members gather for a recent event.
Myth: I can work off campus as long as I get paid in cash or services.
Reality: International students can work off campus if—and only if—they have prior authorization through the International Student and Scholar Services office. As a result, we strongly recommend against jobs off campus. Please read more on work policies and consult your advisor if you have questions.
Myth: Visa restrictions make it impossible to find an internship.
Reality: Finding internships and jobs for international students can be challenging but it does still happen. Utilize Daniels Career Services resources, meet with career coaches, attend career fairs and network with alumni to give yourself the best shot.
Myth: Americans don’t want to be friends with international students.
Reality: Most Americans meet and form friendships through activities like clubs, sports, affinity groups, roommates, school or work, and most welcome diversity of thought and experience. International students at Daniels often end up becoming close friends!
Myth: American college life is full of parties, just like in the movies.
Reality: College can be a very social time, but that doesn’t mean that academics are ignored. Expect to be challenged in the classroom. But, if the DU hockey team wins another national championship, be prepared to celebrate! And there are many fun, welcoming spaces that are free of alcohol and other substances.
Myth: I’ll feel unsafe in an American city.
Reality: The University of Denver has numerous resources to ensure your safety while on campus. We have dedicated campus safety officers, immediate text alerts and a specific safety mobile application. Check out these resources from the Department of Campus Safety if you have concerns.
Myth: Denver is sunny, so it’s always warm.
Reality: While Denver often touts its 300 days of sunshine, that doesn’t necessarily correlate with warm temperatures. Our average temperature over the course of the year is 50 degrees Fahrenheit (10 Celsius), but temperatures can fluctuate from 0 Fahrenheit (-18 Celsius) to 100 Fahrenheit (38 Celsius). Make sure you have a winter coat, hat and gloves for the colder months, which is usually November-March. If you do like the cold, Denver is a great place for winter sports. It sits at the base of the Rocky Mountains and is about an hour away from world class skiing.